Well my little kitties, today's blog is about drama.
Now, who couldn't see a break up coming, raise your hand? I didn't even know anything about them and could see this coming a mile away. When a third party is involved, you know that something is going to blow up. Someone is going to get burned. You would have to be deaf and blind not to see or feel this coming. I think it is kind of funny, the "oh so sad" kind, not the "funny haha" kind of funny, that an outside couple could see such a disaster coming and the three invovled couldn't.
Now, I know there is more to this than anyone knows, except those directly involved. I also believe that no one is innocent and all involved have at least one finger in that pie! I have theories on a situation like this.
First: If you are a third party in a relationship and you feel and smell tension between a couple.. back away slowly.. when you get to the door, RUN!
Second: If you didnt do anything wrong and it just looks bad, back away slowly, when you get to the door, RUN ~ because no matter how the situation is spun, you are going to be the big fat stinky turd in the middle. The cause of all the strife. The scapegoat. The patsy!
Three: When you become the big fat stinky turd in this totally fucked up situation, you will not just lose the friendship of the couple. You will lose the friendship of all those that you hung around with. If nothing else, all the trust. Tearing apart more friendships, therefore, causing even more drama. Whew... that was alot to say!
Four: If your intention was to break them up, own up to it. You wanted someone and by god, you didn't care who you stepped on to get it. Stand up, be proud, you just might end up with that trophy. Remember though, the grass is always greener on the otherside of the fence, until you realize it is fertilized with bullshit.
Five: The couple in the relationship should try the best to make sure that innocent parties are not blamed, if friendship is all that was involved. Don't ya just hate being a patsy, if you were really only a peggy?
Oh the tangled web you weave when you stick your dick in someone else's wife, or you put your puss on some other woman's husbands dick... or something like that!
You get my drift.. all actions have consequences, make sure they are worth it, in all decisions you make, and that you can live with those decisions with a clean conscious. If you have done nothing wrong, smile and walk on~