Wise Women

Wise Women

There is one thing that women have, I truly believe this. It is women's intuition. My mother had it in spades. I mean that woman, knew your number the first time she met you. You can ask my family on here, they can attest to it! (well the family that knew her) While I don't have it as well as she did, I did get some extra "umph" from her. Now there are some people on here, thinking coughbullshitcough. Well my friend, you should not doubt. I can get a good read on people the first time I meet them if it is for a significant period of time.. Some of you might want sock that away for future reference...

Oh the tangled web...

Well my little kitties, today's blog is about drama.

Now, who couldn't see a break up coming, raise your hand? I didn't even know anything about them and could see this coming a mile away. When a third party is involved, you know that something is going to blow up. Someone is going to get burned. You would have to be deaf and blind not to see or feel this coming.  I think it is kind of funny, the "oh so sad" kind, not the "funny haha" kind of funny, that an outside couple could see such a disaster coming and the three invovled couldn't.

Now, I know there is more to this than anyone knows, except those directly involved. I also believe that no one is innocent and all involved have at least one finger in that pie! I have theories on a situation like this.

First: If you are a third party in a relationship and you feel and smell tension between a couple.. back away slowly.. when you get to the door, RUN!

Second: If you didnt do anything wrong and it just looks bad, back away slowly, when you get to the door, RUN ~ because no matter how the situation is spun, you are going to be the big fat stinky turd in the middle. The cause of all the strife. The scapegoat. The patsy!

Three: When you become the big fat stinky turd in this totally fucked up situation, you will not just lose the friendship of the couple. You will lose the friendship of all those that you hung around with. If nothing else, all the trust. Tearing apart more friendships, therefore, causing even more drama. Whew... that was alot to say!

Four: If your intention was to break them up, own up to it. You wanted someone and by god, you didn't care who you stepped on to get it. Stand up, be proud, you just might end up with that trophy. Remember though, the grass is always greener on the otherside of the fence, until you realize it is fertilized with bullshit.


Five: The couple in the relationship should try the best to make sure that innocent parties are not blamed, if friendship is all that was involved. Don't ya just hate being a patsy, if you were really only a peggy?

Oh the tangled web you weave when you stick your dick in someone else's wife, or you put your puss on some other woman's husbands dick... or something like that!

You get my drift.. all actions have consequences, make sure they are worth it, in all decisions you make, and that you can live with those decisions with a clean conscious. If you have done nothing wrong, smile and walk on~

My Beautiful Mother

Thanks to my mother:

I want to say thanks to my Mother, even though she is no longer with me.

Thanks for teaching me to be the woman I am today. The mother that I became and the daughter that I hope you were proud of.

Thank you for teaching me to say what is on my mind, brutally honest if need be, but honest still the same.

Thank you for teaching me to love my son the way that you loved Tim and I, with hugs and kisses all of the time and telling us that we did good or looked nice, to build up our self esteem.

Thank you for standing up for me when you thought I needed it, and taking me down a peg when I needed that also.

Teaching me right from wrong and the all about the grey area in between, that life isn't always rosy and that you just have to roll with the punches and or roll up your sleeves and get shit done!

Thanks for teaching me that I have self worth, that no man is worth taking shit from, and that I will be loved for being me and there isn't a man worth it, who treats me like I am less than.

All of these Thank You's, can't even begin to show the love that I feel for you. The appreciation I have for all you have taught me and the loneliness I feel without you.

The beautiful mother I will always remember

Happy Mother's Day~

Like you need a reason...

"Owners of dogs will have noticed that, if you provide them with food and water and shelter and affection, they will think you are god. Whereas owners of cats are compelled to realize that, if you provide them with food and water and shelter and affection, they draw the conclusion that they are gods."

~Christopher Hitchens

Seriously cool!!

~Gotta Have Catitude~

And that says it all!!